New Relationship Energy
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Hier ein paar Ressourcen zum Thema New Relationship Energy (aka NRE), die ich gerade für den Partner meiner neuen Liebe herausgesucht habe...
Liebe Grüße vom Werner 11:56, 3. Nov 2007 (CET)
http://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory:
[Ausschnitt:] Da Polyamory im Gegensatz zur Monogamie keinen Ausschließlichkeitsanspruch gegenüber dem Partner vertritt, besteht keine Notwendigkeit, eine Beziehung zu beenden, wenn der Partner parallel weitere Beziehungen eingeht. Akute Verliebtheit, in englischsprachigen Foren auch „New Relationship Energy“ (NRE) genannt, wird trotz der schönen Gefühle manchmal als mit Vorsicht zu genießender Zustand gesehen. Sie mache es schwerer, die Bedürfnisse aller Partner auszugleichen und berge die Gefahr von kurzschlüssigen Entscheidungen, deren Konsequenzen langfristig bedauert würden.
http://www.aphroweb.net/articles/nre.htm
(habe ich noch nicht gelesen, schaut aber interessant aus ...)
What's all this NRE stuff, anyway? Reflections 15 years later By Zhahai Stewart Originally published in Loving More #26 in 2001
http://www.polyfamilies.com/misanthrope20040717.html
Polyamory for the Practical: The Dammit Phenomenon
Polyamory is a balancing act and NRE is not a good excuse to be an irresponsible jerk. As a matter of fact, I think I'll print that last sentence up and paste it to my home monitor, my mirror, my monitor at work, and maybe even paste it to my water bottle.
(kurz überflogen - schaut auch sehr gut aus)
http://polyweekly.com/archives/291
(der Podcats / Audioblog zum Thema Ployamory - in dieser Episode auch zur NRE)
The new Polyamory Weekly #128: Free Gift with New Purchase! is up!
3:30 Topic: Free Gift with New Purchase Minx and Steve Eley discuss the idea of free gift with new purchase. You know, that great bonus gift you get when companies are trying to woo you–free cosmetic bag, cheap cable, low introductory interest rates on your credit card? How about not treating your old partner like your credit card company treats you–great stuff when you first sign up, but nothing special after they’ve “got” you. How about a reward for loyal, existing customers? How come just the new, NRE relationship gets all the goodies? Steve shares how he rewards his wife with bonus stuff when he starts a new relationship with someone else. In short, here’s how to keep your existing partner from feeling like and old cable customer while your new partner gets all the goodies. And Chore Wars? Yeah.
http://polyweekly.com/archives/61
Polyamory Weekly #14, June 21, 2005:
This episode is chock-fulla poly goodness! Listener feedback, a feature on Fleshbot, an interview with Polly Wally’s creator Kirby Ferguson, and the much-teased-about interview with Graydancer and Genevieve discussing dealing with NRE.
(Sendungen 1-40 des Polyamory Weekly Podcasts sind derzeit nicht im Web verfügbar,
ich habe sie aber und have diese Episode online gestellt unter
http://free-creatives.net/polydownloads/ - weitere kann ich auf Anfrage gern hochladen)
http://monopolyblog.wordpress.com/2007/03/21/poly-weekly-6-21-05/
(ein HörerBlog über die Sendung)
Can a leopard change her spots? Explorations of the poly world by a mono girl
In this episode, Minx is interviewing her lover, Graydancer and his wife, Genevieve about something called New Relationship Energy (NRE.) This is a term I only just learned about. I guess it means the excited, giddy feeling you have when you’ve just started a new relationship with someone. This can be hard for an existing partner to cope with when their partner takes a new lover. It can be a time of heightened jealousy and envy, as well as exposing previously unimportant insecurities, or unearthing old ones that may have been quelled in the past.
